Monday, January 03, 2011
So, what happened in my 2010?
3 concerts,
and 4 musicals.
Been to Sydney twice, Brisbane+GoldCoast once.
Saw fireworks in Syd for the first time in my life.
Went to the rehearsal of the Carols by Candlelight by Vision Australia.
Attended 1 friend’s wedding (3 other friends got married in the same year).
Be part of the postgrad student association of mcri.
Gave my first ‘public’ oral presentation at the ASMR student symposium in the Ella Latham theatre (the biggest theatre hall at rch/mcri),
Gave my first oral presentation at a proper conference (Aussiemit in Garvan Institute, Syd)
Attended 2 scientific conferences (Lorne and Syd), 1 student symposium.
First paper published, a middle authorship, Am J of Hum Genetics.
Countless experiments completed, successfully or not.
Ate a lot of yummy food in melb and Sydney, thanks to the foodies who were there with me.
Had 3+1 friends and 2 groups of relatives visiting melb from msia/s’pore.
2 new babies from 2 cousin/cousin’s wife.
Had 2 wisdom teeth removed.
Went to the dentist for the first time here, and had my first ‘scale and clean’.
Said ‘I love you’ to someone in person for the first time (she’s my very very nice colleague la).
Had 2 haircuts.
‘burnt’ my hand with dry-ice (at work) and got a hand full of blisters for almost a week, learnt my lesson in a hard way.
Got my driving licence eventually.
Had my first outdoor moonlight cinema experience.
It rained+hailed+flooded in melb city and it all happened in front of me.
Went up to the Eureka tower for the first time, the view was great.
Had my first Coke zero, it tastes better than the original Coca Cola! less sweet.
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looking fwd to more exciting experiences to come in the 2011!!
Saturday, January 01, 2011
and here's what i said:
i should learn to be more forgetful on things i shouldn't rmb;
i should learn to look at certain things with one eye closed;
i should learn to enjoy my life more coz it can be very short;
i should learn to be more talkative to 'strangers' (well not random ppl on the street lar, but more like ppl at work for example, ppl whom i'm not close friends with).
how similar to this year's!!
hmmm not very good huh... means i hvn't achieved much
and also i hvn't changed/grown much :S
i love fireworks,
everytime i see fireworks i'm 感动-ed
was watching video snaps of the 2011 new year celebration fireworks around the world on the BBC website, for some reason, i'm almost in tears.
seeing it on the tv screen is different, you need to hear the noise of the fireworks which is like .3 sec behind (light transports faster than sound you see),
and if you're close enough to the source of the fireworks, you need to feel the light on ur face (although there might be ashes and smokes coming to your face too but who cares)
can't imagine how depressed and dissappointing i will be if i'm not seeing the fireworks with my bare eyes when i'm in the city that celebrates with fireworks!
hope that one year i can be in sydney or taiwan for the NYE
syd for the fantastic fireworks, top2 in the world in terms of NYE celebration.
taiwan for the live NYE countdown shows.
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new year's resolution(s).... hmm...
the first one is very straight forward: to finish my PhD!!
then, the others are:
be more forgiving to certain ppl (of course, those who deserve la),
be kind to ppl who are kind to me,
live for myself, if ppl don't care then just be it, be more care-less
love myself and my parents more, life is shourt!
Happy 2011 to myself! :)
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
礼
挑礼物是一门学问,是用心思修来的学问
而收礼物也是学问,是用EQ修来的学问
当你收到一份你不喜欢的礼物,要抑制自己脸上出现‘我不喜欢’这四个字,还要称赞送礼人,和表现得感动感激,我承认我不及格
人家说,‘有心就好,送什么都没关系’
我,还在努力的体会当中
Friday, December 10, 2010
how i lost my wisdom... teeth
Firstly, a good breakfast before the surgery
got to bring the teeth (one funny looking tooth and 3 pieces of tooth fragments) home as a souvenior. went to buy some pain killers and Nurofen before heading home in the rain.
popped those tablets into my mouth, did some emails, analysed some data, felt super sleepy coz of the pain-killer. so went to bed woke up 3 or 4 hours later, still feeling tired. numbness pretty much gone. had some food then slept again.
didn't feel much pain, was bit irritated by the bloody smell in my mouth that's all. very careful with brushing.
the next morning, woke up with a swollen cheek :(
a 'lopsided chipmunk' is what my friend said. very little pain, but bit stiff with my muscle. spent the whole day on the couch watchin twnese talk shows, shouldn't hv checked work email coz it made me think abt work again, had a nap, went to bed before 10pm.
the next morning (This morning), less swollen but instead, a bit numb :( decided to go back to work in the afternoon after lunch. before heading to work, went to the private health insurance to get some money back, then found out i can only claim half as much as i thought i could :(
what i've been eating since wed:
just found this in the brochure the nurse gave me that day:
'repeated jaw movements (eg increased talking upon return to work may cause jaw and muscle discomfort) which can be controlled by resting the jaw and taking pain-killers'
hmm... so mayb i shouldn't go back to work so early huh. i've been talking quite a bit today, and laughing too. is that why my cheek and lips feel numb now? :(
ok, less talking from now on.
Wednesday, December 01, 2010
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
i mean for things such as when to hv dinner gathering with their friends, and when to get married, those things that you need other ppl involved. i do'nt care when you want to hv dinner if you're just having it by yourself.
well unless it's a random gathering, if ppl missed it, they don't hv to wait for long for the 2nd gathering or it's something easy to reschedule. but if you're only coming from overseas for a short visit, can you at least tell me how long you'll be in melb for? the exact dates please? don't you have that on your flight itinerary?! and when i told you i can't do this day then don't make me sacrifice my long-planned plan for your last minute plan!
and if you're getting married, well unless it's a shotgun marriage lor, you defintely need more than a 2 months notice right? unless you don't expect ppl overseas/out of the state to come. o well, too bad. i've planned my life too early and i just have to convince myself that it's a shotgun wedding, it'll make me feel more comfortable
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
does that worth more than $800 + 2 days off work when i'm suppose to be at the busiest time in my phd (although i can easily make up for that on weekends) + not able to spend more days holiday overseas while going for a conference (well actually only involves 2 days difference)
a friend who have been my classmate for more than 6 years, a friend whom i've known for more than half of my life,
is getting married in jan next year.
is it worth my effort time and money to fly back just to attend her wedding?!
we don't belong in the same 'group' of close friends but she's one of the friends whom i'm still in touch with since we finished high school.
it's more of the 'quantity' than 'quality' when it comes to describing how close we actully are. we've known each other for so many years but we're not each other's best buddies.
it's a tough call!!
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Tuesday, October 05, 2010
Thursday, September 30, 2010
eg while preparing for exams, i'll loose weight, coz i don't snack and only eat when i really have to.
eg while experiments in the lab dont go as planned, i loose appetite, and only eat when i really have to
muesli with milk for breakfast at 8am, a breadtop bun + small pear lasted me the whole day after and then a 100g Ritter Sport chocolate for dinner. went to bed at 10pm on a wednesday night.
had a microwavable frozen hokkien noodles for breakfast on the next day 7am, McNuggets meal at 3pm.
luckily the day ended with a dinner of nice sushi's and nice icecream for dessert.
Thursday, September 09, 2010
to bring my parents around to travel. anywhere. just anywhere in this world.
it's a happy feeling when they visit new places, experience new stuff. that makes me happy. i really want them to see the world. as much as they can.
few days ago i asked mum if she and dad want to go hk or tw when i go back for holiday in march. and this is what she replied, on msn:
'ok, can lah. got u take us , want!'
i only saw that when i got home and turn on my msn.
while at work, i got an sms saying (direct quote)
'we want 2 go 2 hong kong!'
i think they (or at least my mum is) are excited abt it :)
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the feeling of
'psychologically ready to leave where i am now to start a new life/career in another country'
is actually scary >.<
but i'm still optimistic about canada
Saturday, August 28, 2010
OCD
i realised that i can't help but arranging things on the shelves in the supermarket when they're not in order. that includes straighting up clothes and small boxed items on the rack.
but after trying on clothes in the fitting room, i'm fine giving back the shirt and the clothes hanger separately.
i even think that, being annoyed when people always running late without a good reason falls in the same category. because so many of my friends are doing that until i question myself for being punctual! :S what kind of theory is that?!?!
and perhaps i can also include the fact that i'm not very good in handling last minute changes of plans.
are they all related to OCD??? or i'm just a control freak.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
can't believe it's been 1 month and a bit since i had my holiday and i'm tired already.
should be sleeping now, but bcause of some reason, just don't feel like sleeping because i don't want tmr to come so soon :(
sigh
can i have some surprise? pleasant surprise of course. something to cheer me up
Monday, August 09, 2010
friends who don't usually contact or hang out with you, not close to you, when they need your help, they'll come to you. sounds like these friends are not sincere.
but think about this, if they don't come to you when they know you might be able to help, does this make you think they don't see you as friends? i'm sure if you know they don't usually hang out with you, they'll know the same too. so if they still come to you in such situation, it either means, their 'skin is thick' or, they know you're a nice friend.
well well, not that i'm finding excuse from these friens, i'm trying to make myself less 'dislike' them ba. pathetic.
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i feel that, the more you konw about something, the pros and cons, the more you're picky about it.
to me, if i want to get something, especially if it's not something cheap, i'll want to get a good descent one eventhough it'll cost more. if i can't afford the good one, i rather not have it.
should i apply this philosophy of mine when getting presents for others? hmmm...
